When that little voice in my head starts judging me (or others), I have four answers to the voice:

   1. Big Deal!
   2. Who Cares?
   3. So What?
   4. Why Not?

If none of these work, there is one more:
      IDM (it don't matter)

                                           The Four Agreements Companion Book
                                                                               by
                                                                   Don Miguel Ruix